Two months is too little
They let him go, they had no sudden healing
To think that providence would
Take a child from his mother while she prays is appalling

Who told us we'd be rescued?
What has changed and why should we be saved from nightmares?
We're asking why this happens to us who have died to live
It's unfair

This is what it means to be held
How it feels when the sacred is torn from your life
And you survive
This is what it is to be loved
And to know that the promise was when everything fell
We'd be held

This hand is bitterness
We wanna taste it, let the hatred numb our sorrow
The wise hand opens slowly
To lilies of the valley and tomorrow

This is what it means to be held
How it feels when the sacred is torn from your life
And you survive
This is what it is to be loved
And to know that the promise was when everything fell
We'd be held

If hope is born of suffering
If this is only the beginning
Can we not wait for one hour
Watching for our Savior?

This is what it means to be held
How it feels when the sacred is torn from your life
And you survive
This is what it is to be loved
And to know that the promise was when everything fell
We'd be held
Yeah, ooh, be held, oh

This is what it is to be loved
And to know that the promise was when everything fell
We'd be held
This is what it means to be held

About This Song

"Held" is a devastating yet ultimately comforting exploration of faith in the face of unimaginable loss, specifically the death of a child despite fervent prayers for healing. The song confronts the brutal reality of unanswered prayer and the apparent silence of God when tragedy strikes those who have devoted their lives to faith, questioning why believers aren't spared from life's most crushing blows. Grant's lyrics wrestle with the theological crisis that emerges when divine providence seems absent or even cruel, challenging the prosperity gospel notion that faith guarantees protection from suffering. The central metaphor of being "held" suggests that God's presence isn't found in miraculous rescue but in the embrace that sustains us through unbearable pain when everything sacred feels torn away. Musically, the song builds from intimate vulnerability to soaring emotional release, with Grant's powerful vocals conveying both anguish and surrender. The production balances restraint with orchestral swells that mirror the emotional journey from questioning to acceptance. What makes the song so profound is its refusal to offer easy answers or platitudes about God's plan, instead finding hope in the radical idea that being held by divine love is enough, even when healing doesn't come. This honest portrayal of grief within faith resonated deeply with Christian audiences who had experienced similar losses and felt permission to voice their own doubts and anger at God.

Comments (26)

  • Anonymous
    "We have need for endurance" the writer of Hebrews states. To see beyond this world and it's circumstances, to set your heart on the things of Heaven where Christ resides,to grow out of our humanness into a Christ like heart is requirment for the Kingdom. This requires harsh circumstances of what seems to be unfairness, but in God's reality it is spiritual growth intended for each believer.
  • Anonymous
    i lost a child- i completely understand the lyrics of this song- it was the moment that I realized that I had survived... THAT is when I really undrestood what grace is. to have written these words without experiencing this same reality is phenomenal. it is a beautiful way to express the incredible "awfulness" and the inexpressible impossibility of the grace our Father extends to us.
  • Anonymous
    this song makes sense i understand it completely i love this song so much
  • Anonymous
    This is a song that has touched my life from the first time I heard it. The writer understand Jesus and his unconditional love. Also they understand the love a mother has for a child. I feel these two things are almost alike. The love of the Father Jesus and the love a mother has for a child.
  • Anonymous
    I love the song we"d be held!!!!!! I am a christan and I still believe God is with us every day, and he holds us every day. Just like the song says. Obama is just taking everything away from us, but he has not taken God away yet, but trust me Mr. Obama will. Hes taken our free dom of speach away. So im gessing that he will take away our Bibles away, and probbebly more, but if they think they can take God out of my life, I feel really bad for them. Have a nice day, god bless you all.
  • texasangel0820
    I was pregnant and found out today that I was 11 weeks but the baby had no heart beat. The baby is dead. I am so lost and hurt and confused as to what to do, I don't know if I should have a d and c or to wait and let it happen on its own. I'm a mom to a beautiful almost 11 month old little girl, I love her so much but right now I'm so hurt it hurts to even look at her. I know God doesn't give you more than you can handle but I don't know how to deal w/ this it hurts so bad. Please pray for me if someone is out there reading this.
  • Anonymous
    this is in reply to texasangel0820. I am so sorry about your loss. I've never lost a child so I can't completely understand what that is like. I do know that no matter what God will be with you through all things and give you the strength you need. If it's meant for you to have another child it will happen in God's time. We just have to trust that God knows better than we do what is best and it might be that it just wasn't meant to be for this precious soul to be born yet. God Bless You
  • Anonymous
    I'm really sorry for your friends loss, I hope that she will feel better knowing that her child is a better place right now. Her child is safe happy and is always with her in her heart. Don't blame the Lord for anything, He does everything for a reason and He will take you when its your time and I guess that it was your childs time. So never blame the great Lord
  • Anonymous
    i know how you feel and who you want to blame i feel it too. i lost my little girl at 4 years old. it been a year and i still hurt and hearing this gives me comfort. the hurt will never go away and will never get better but remembering the memorys get you by i go sit by her grave everyday and read to her and sing what she loved.i miss her so much. she will never be forgotten i will be with her one day when it comes she will be wating for me. darlene
  • Anonymous
    I know how you feel i lost me lil girl one year ago she was only 4.I am still hurting the pain never goes away everyday i ask why her she was taken away she was only a baby with a lot to live for.I know he needed angels but why her or any child.I visit her garve everyday and it hurts o much i feel like my heart was torned out.i read to her but the selfishness in me wants her here not there and listening to this song i feel you my god help you threw this.cause i cant get threw this it hurts so bad inside.i find myself crying every nite when i am alone cause i am always told to move on but i cant i need her with me
  • Anonymous
    The first time that I heard this song, I had just miscarried my first child. My husband was rushing me to the emergency room. I was so full of sorrow and God put this song on the radio to give me comfort, and I knew he was speaking to me and comforting me.
  • Anonymous
    On a certain day i heard this song played from a radio, i felt a touch in my spirit and started singing de chorus throughout the day! Ekop Ini (Nigeria)
  • Anonymous
    My best friends 23 year old nephew was brutally and senselessly beaten to death last week and this morning while in my car, this song came on. I found the lyrics and printed them off for her. Though we are Christians and trust that God is in control, we are still deeply greiving and some are quite angry, so it's my prayer that this song will seep into all of our souls....
  • Anonymous
    I heard this song today and it came on at the perfect time it is beautiful we loss our 20 year old son and it is a journey only people who have been there understand and so hard to live with because after so much time peolple jus think you need to move on which we do one day at a time life does change and we move on with a heartache and alot of realization thanks for the song
  • Anonymous
    I too have experienced those moments where you question God's will, but He is always merciful. We have a medically fragile child whom we adopted. The first two years we spent Christmas and most other holidays in the Pediatric ICU just waiting to see if our little boy would make it or not. He came back from death's door four times now. He is much healthier now, Praise God! When I first heard this song I broke down sobbing because it validated so much of what I was feeling then. My little boy, who has no speech or movement from the chin down was able to tell me through blinks that Jesus was standing next to him all the time he was sick. We never had to tell him about Jesus,he gets to "talk" to Jesus all the time. They are "buddies". God is so good, I write this to those who wonder what their loved one went through when things were bad. We have been chosen for a purpose. To Glorify God no matter what. If He takes it all away, I will still worship Him!
  • Anonymous
    The chorus speaks to my heart. My spouse has been having an affair, told me about it and still continued. "This is what it means to be held, how it feels when the sacred is torn from life and you survive." Praise God that He is holding me. I know what it feels like to be held by my loving Savior!
  • Anonymous
    truly this song has prophesied to my life, the rest lord Jesus of Nazareth, fullfill your word and the prophecy in your mighty name i pray... amen.
  • Daniel Njoroge
    I Like this.
  • Sheena Zafe
    ang ganda naman.
  • Nakibuka Cynthia Adrone
    sooo in love with this song.
  • Khatiya Kato Philip
    okay wats all this stuff of love all about??????????????????????????????????
  • Denis Mugume
    Yeah...that the promise was when everything fell, we'd be held... Check her new song called Human.
  • Kimberly Scott Hodge
    Held by Natalie Grant. Look up lyrics! SO POWERFUL!
  • Whitney Drake
    I lost my little boy a year and a half ago now, strangly I gave birth two months before my due date and as I drove to the hospital to deliver my son this song which I had never heard before came on the radio, I couldn't help but think that wasnt a coincidence, I looked it up later and it played his funneral.
  • Dorothy Labial Flores Metchale
    this is a very nice song.. my mind always sing this song.. and I couldn't help myself realizing there's so many things that I did that God is not pleased. T_T
  • Tann L. Clacio
    Amazing.....Great one....keep it up Nat and God Bless You. more power