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The xx – Infinity Lyrics

The xx · xx
Rock

After all the time, after you, had you seen me with someone new?
Hanging so high for your return, but the stillness is a burn
Had I seen it in your eyes, there'd have been no try after try
Your leaving had no goodbye, had I just seen one in your eyes

I can't give it up, to someone else's touch
Because I care too much
I can't give it up, to someone else's touch
Because I care too much
Care too much, care too much

Could you tell, I was left lost and lonely?
Could you tell, things ain't worked out my way?
Wish the best for you, wish the best for me
Wished for infinity, if that ain't me
Then give it up (I can't give it up)
Give it up (I can't give it up)

I can't give it up, to someone else's touch
Because I care too much
I can't give it up, to someone else's touch
Because I care too much
Care too much, care too much

Give it up (I can't give it up)
Give it up (I can't give it up)
Give it up (I can't give it up)
Give it up (I can't give it up)
Give it up (I can't give it up)
Give it up (I can't give it up)
Give it up (I can't give it up)
Give it up (I can't give it up)

About This Song

"Infinity" is a haunting meditation on the paralysis of unresolved love and the suffocating weight of emotional limbo. The song captures the protagonist trapped in an endless cycle of waiting for someone who has already emotionally departed, clinging to hope despite clear signs that the relationship is over. The lyrics reveal the devastating realization that closure was never offered-no goodbye, no final conversation-leaving the narrator suspended in a state of perpetual longing that feels infinite. The xx's signature minimalist production amplifies this sense of emptiness, with sparse, echoing guitars and subdued percussion creating vast sonic spaces that mirror the emotional void left by absence. Romy Madley Croft's delicate, almost whispered vocals convey vulnerability and resignation, while the repetitive structure of "I can't give it up" becomes both mantra and prison. The song explores how caring "too much" can become a form of self-torture, where love transforms into an inability to move forward or accept reality. This emotional stasis-the "stillness" that burns-resonates deeply with listeners who have experienced the particular agony of loving someone who has already let go. The track's genius lies in how its restrained musical arrangement perfectly embodies the theme of being frozen in time, making the listener feel the weight of that infinite wait.

Comments (23)

  • Anonymous
    Guy loves girl (or whatever permutation), and cannot leave her behind despite his efforts, such as trying and/or considering getting interested into somebody else.
  • Anonymous
    The guy is waiting for his ex, because he loves her too much to be with anyone else.
  • Anonymous
    my exact life my exact relationship. thank god for music and the geniuses behind it
  • Anonymous
    it is so hard to let go!! even harder when you really love him/her these lyrics are perfet to describe that feeling
  • Anonymous
    They've sampled "wicked game" and (of all things) Enya!....and it sounds amazing!
  • Anonymous
    I thought this song was about someone losing their virginity especially because of the part where she says " I can't give it up to someone elses touch"
  • Anonymous
    i didn't understand what the song about =\did she gave up? or he..?could you explain it to me please?
  • Anonymous
    She fell in love with someone else. He didn't know she was looking or that she planned to leave him. She left. He was miserable and suffered pain. She came back because she decided she can't give them up. He's saying he wished the best for the both of them, he wished for infinity and if she doesn't want that with him she needs to "give it up" and let him go.
  • Anonymous
    they broke up...but the love is still there, because of that he finds that he can't move on. he wished for infinaty and even though she loves him somethings stopping her. it hurts him evry time he sees her because he he knows its still there but she left him nd theres nothing he can do just wait for her...exactly my relationship
  • Anonymous
    This is my situation and how I interpret the song in my context:I meet and fall in love with a girl She already has (not a boyfriend!!) a fiancee. She falls in love with me. She can't leave her fiancee nor does she want to leave me. She sits down and decide to go for what she is comfortable with (Quote "I know I can live with him" as in she says jump and he says "how high?"). Then she goes AWOL..no calls, mail, nothing. I decide I want to move on emotionally and I do. Then she comes back to my life after a month (fiancee intact). This song is a conversation between her and me after the period of silence. Me telling her how I feel and that she should just forget me and her trying to explain why she wants to go but can't. This song is a tribute to women who can't make up their minds and to the men they hurt in the process.
  • Anonymous
    With my dream girl I have this situation, maybe it&#039s not the shame, but is close. She had a boyfriend from 5 years ago. Then she meets me, we flirted a lot for months and finaly we fell in love; she broke up with her boyfriend. The problem, she was about to back to her country; just one month left. She was confused and she didn&#039t know what to do. Me, it was clear, enjoy the moment till she left. We enjoyed but not too much because of her confusion; she wanted me away when I was close but she wanted me close when I was away(so typical). Well, she left to his country so this relationship was over. She wished me good luck in love. After that I&#039ve tried with another girls, I succeded with them, but I&#039m still in love with her. We are still in touch but not very often, only by the internet. I don&#039t know if she is or she&#039s been with another guys. I don&#039t ask her, I prefer not knowing that, cause it&#039d hurt so badly... She doesn&#039t aske me either. F***** love situations...
  • Anonymous
    This song relates to my life in that I have had a 2 year on and off again relationship with a man who is not wanting to commit to me becsuse of his recent divorce and fears. He also is younger and wants to possibly have more children with someone more his age. My children are college aged and I am done having babies. We are in totally different places in our lives but yet we have an amazing chemistry and can't seem to let the other one go. He trys or I say no more but we each find ways back to each other. Bitter sweet relationship... Can't move on because I can't let go. I want to believe that it could work but he won't give us a chance. He wants other things in life. We feel trust and safe with each other and it's comfor table and good it's just we can't take it to the next level and so we stay in limbo status. It is not an easy place to be. Can't live with each other and can't live without...Can only wonder how much longer we csn keep going on like this...This is why the song speaks to me as I feel that he is saying he has moved on and telling her to do the same but she can't just as I can't. I am exclusive to him in my heart, mind and body but he is looking for his future in another woman. Painful to know and be helpless to do anything about it... It's a take it or leave it cycle...One that I'm not ready to break...
  • Anonymous
    relate alot to this song too. on and off relationship. i know deep down he is not the one for me......time passed when we are not together. and i believed i was ready to move on. and nights are lonely. couple of hooks ups later.... but i couldnt give it up to the guy cuz i only want to give it to my ex. cuz i so comfortable with him..still to this day i cant, and its been couple months...and if knew what was up..he probably would say give it up...as in. give up your love for me. and move on. but im doin well...slowly but surely
  • Anonymous
    So there's this girl. We met during class, we were forced to work together as part of a group project. But towards the end, we got closer and closer. This is the first time i ever became attracted to a girl primzarily because of her personality and the "connection" we shared. The term hazs ended we said our goodbyes. On the walk home whilst reminiscing about the good times we shared. It finally hit me that after months of intense working together I had perhaps fallen in love with this girl. But the way our course workzs, I won't see her again for another 8 months. Now when I think about her and the way we left it it hurts. I wonder why it took me so long to rezalise how I felt about this girl and how it took me so long to realise my true feelings. I wonder if she feels the same way...
  • Anonymous
    I was looking thru xx lyrics and saw the word infinity..it was the name of mine and my exs falling anthem. I clicked on it thinking what could be the odds that it would somehow relate to us, but as I scrolled through the lyrics mmy heart stopped. I know he isn't the one for me, nor am I the one for him any longer but somehow, someway, even after all the shit we've put each other through..specially what he did to me..I still 'hang high for his return'..and its tru 'the stillness is a burn'. It's so crazyseeing your story played out in writing, and ur forced to view things clearer outside the box. And after playing so cold and acting so perfect the lyrics just break you down immediately. We were on n off for 4 years, very tumultuous relationship. And though I've been with hotter guys since we broke up who treat me worlds better I still can't give it up, as in my heart..at least the way I did w him. Ironic how his "leaving had no goodbye", he knew "I was left lost and lonely" and its funny how we literally once did "wish for infinity". It breaks my heart knowing I care too much, when he should be halfway to hell. I guess that's the way tru lov works, as socretes said-"the coldest lov has the coldest end"
  • TokyoKazama
    Just found out a girl I love (even though she didn't reciprocate my love) is now seeing another guy, as for me "the stillness is a burn". Feels like someone punched me in the chest and placed a little black hole inside, this black hole is slowly but surely consuming me. Oh how I wish it wouldn't....Anyone got any words of wisdom before I totally lose myself in the darkness?
  • Yoeli Mancilla
    <3
  • Ram Prakash Kaur
    such a good song, gives me the chills.
  • Katherine Marie Sierra
    I love it <3 twin flames *~~~~~~ floww.
  • Brooke Adams
    This song is so chill and simple.. yet has so much meaning to it. It chills me right out. Make love to the music <3.
  • :/
    im living your comment, 7 years and she leave without saying goodbye, i cant stop thinking of her but i dont say a word about it, no messages, nothing... just the idea of give it up...even if i cant forget her :/
  • Thomas O'Hearn
    I love this song. Posting the video on twitter @ne1up right now if anyone wants to follow.
  • Shsjaak
    İt'd be a good song for shameless, i mean mickey and ian